Researchers have described falling in love as a way to self-expand. Some think they have it all figured out, even putting steps to the process of falling in love. Can we really take what one person says abut love as the answer? The question in itself should give the answer away. Of course not. When it comes to love there is no one answer, because there is no one question.
The past week or so, there has been one question in particular that has stood out. How long do you wait? You really like a certain someone, told them how you felt, but they don't want to be in a relationship right now. A friend of mine says she talked to her boyfriend about it and he said 3 to 4 months, because guys take a while to open up and feel comfortable. Others say to move on immediately. I've come to think the answer lies within yourself. You decide whether that someone is worth all the time in the world or not. But in reality, that makes it all the more difficult.
Love has become such a common word that I hate to even write about it. But unfortunately, the heart is inevitable. There is no getting around the fact that some point in our lives we try to continue walking and our heart tells us, "No." I'm just trying to learn at what point should you no longer listen to the very organ that pumps life into your veins and say, "Yes, I can't stay here any longer."
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